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From the past until now, marriage is one of the most important matters in one person’s life. Nowadays, the traditional wedding custom and ceremony in Vietnam is somewhat simpler, but it still maintains the national characters. Many rituals have been ignored as not suitable for modern life. However, there are some obligatory wedding rites that all couples should comply with. In the right sequence, marriage proposal is the first ritual inthe traditional wedding Vietnam. It is the official meeting of two families. At the appointed time and date, the offerings including betel and areca, fruits, candies… will be brought to the bride’s family for sealing the commitment to marriage. When the bride’s family agrees, the couple will burn incense and offer the gifts to the ancestral altar. This wedding ceremony in vietnam is the official announcement about marriage of the young couple. The girl must follow her husband to new house and become a married woman. After the betrothal ritual, the couple will get the marriage certificate at the local government agency and prepare the last traditional wedding ceremony. At the chosen time and date, the groom, his parents and delegation will come to the bride’s house with wedding cars, flowers and offerings . After arriving the groom’s house, the ancestral ceremony must also be conducted here, and one after another the groom’s family will offer the couple their presents. All members of two families will be invited to have a glass of tea or water to show greetings and respects of the pair. Finally, the couple and their parents will welcome their guests, relatives and friends at the wedding party hold at home or the restaurant. Nowadays, with modern life, the important rituals are still preserved and maintain in the traditional wedding, but they may have some changes in implementing method. The sophistication or complication can be flexible, and depend on situation of each family.
Today's concept of the importance of a wedding remains intact. However, the creation of a married couple is no longer too dependent on the community. In fact, the right to decide belongs to the young couple. This also allows the bride and groom to be more personal at the wedding.
From the legal side, as long as a couple has a marriage certificate, they are protected by the law. However, the common concept of all couples is that getting married must be approved by both families and informed to relatives and friends.
In addition to traditional weddings as before, brides and grooms also organize weddings held at wedding venues such as restaurants, wedding centers, hotel wedding halls or family grounds (with translation outsourced or self-cooked party cooking). The bride and groom poured champagne and cut wedding cakes to both sides of the family. Then they exchanged wedding rings.
After the wedding day, the newlyweds often bring gifts to the bride's house for the family ceremony and visit the bride's parents, brothers, sisters and sisters. On this occasion, the bride's family often makes rice for the bride and groom to eat with the family.
This custom is maintained with the meaning of reminding children of filial piety, gratitude for birth, and nurturing of parents, strengthening the family relationship from the couple's first day, with good love couple.
