Talk about problems in your family (what are they about,where do they come from,how do you deal with them,how do your parents deal with them).what would you like to change about yourself so that you can deal with the conflicts better?Do you think your parents should their attitudes and rules?why ?why not?

I live in a very happy family. I was glad that. But in my opinion, parents should not change their attitudes, it is you who must change if you live in a family that does not get along well. Our best attitude towards our parents is to always let them "be in their hearts", to care for their joys and sorrows in the same way that our parents loved us as children. They will still strive to protect their children and grandchildren when needed, but we are the place to rely on when they are old. Instead of providing financial and material, actually what parents need most is just feeling safe and cared for as they cherished us as children. Our attitude toward our parents will show what kind of person we are. We are the kind of people who will attract people and things like that. But what kind of people we are exposed to the most, life will also change into that form.

I am very lucky to live in a family with open-minded parents but sometimes I have some arguments with them. Some of the conflicts are disapproving of housework or opinions. The first one is about hairstyle. I like the short modern type whereas my parents want me to have long black hair. That makes a bid gap between us. Also, I like wearing shorts but they don't allow me to dress up the way I want. Furthermore, I have a 9 p.m curfew. I once told them 9 p.m is too early for me but they didn't agree. These are among the identical differences between me and my parents. I want to change both myself and my parents. I hope we both change our attitudes and live happier.