Talk about bright sides and dark sides of becoming independent

Becoming independent is a tough and hard journey. There still have some bright sides of being independent. In this puberty,teenagers are like birds, try to fly furthest as possible cause we are vỉgorous,zealous and maybe no careworn. So that we love to be independent cause we are teenagers. The positive of being independent that you will have a great foundation of soft skils,high manners in dealing with situations in the society and importantly is that the create new personality of yours. You will getting to discover the life around you as you being independent and curious with everything in your life. Having more friends, attend more social organizations,social or private projects,debate for something for your benefit and so on. There is numberless bright sides to becoming independent,which means it still has dark sides. Approaching reality life without your parents or family advice,protest may lead yourself into taboo things such as addiction,crime,lack of knowledge of life maintance affection to your behaviour( bad behaviour),joining a gang, bad friends .Which later after all the taboo you go through,you will find yourself lost,noncontrol and lead to trauma,depression,anxiety and death. So in this age, we all receive a lot of things from life and we want to prove to our family,parent or just yourself to be independent,afterwards the way you choose to become independent decide bright sides or dark sides.

Bright side
People are often lonely when alone, but you will feel peaceful around. After a tiring day, it would be great to have a quiet space to yourself. This allows you to enjoy "aloneness" in your own way, you can cook, sleep, read books or watch TV without anyone being disturbed. One of the main benefits of living alone is independence and financial autonomy. Self-made people will not be able to rely on family - remember everything is yours. This quickly teaches you financial literacy, a skill that will greatly benefit your future life.

Dark side
A lot of you don't realize the qualities they want in a lover in this age group. They will use this time to try and find their best match. As a result, your present partner is sometimes not the one who will be married to you in the future. This is hard to accept and your heart will break when you realize what you want in life. You will have to let your loved one go. This is a matter of gaps between generations, especially in today's life. Your family may not be able to understand and support your dream. Many people realize what they should do and the world has more entrepreneurs. Hopefully your family knows you well enough to understand what your potential is and what you fit into.