Làm giúp mình topic này với ạ Skill teenagers need to develop to become independent

The skills to become an independent should be formed from a young age when we are in the protective arms of the family.  However, there are families that only let our children become independent when they turn 18 and obviously this will make them quite surprised when they enter life.  So, where should you start ?:
1. Do your own work without the help of others when it's not needed.

 2. Self-improvement of life skills in urgent situations

3. Helping everybody with their work

4. Working part-time jobs in the free time and using the salary earned for things that are useful to themselves